Kenyan Baby Shower

John was unexpectedly invited to a baby shower about a week ago. Here is his story . . .

I decided to go to school on a Saturday to mark exams and work with the basketball team. I had been marking for awhile when the head of the English Department stopped by and asked if I wanted to go to another teacher's house. She had twins in August and they were going to greet the newborns. We traveled to the shower with six adults in a compact car. Yes it was crowded, but that is the Kenyan way to travel.

We started off with some songs in Swahili lead by the female agricultural teacher. Next we had a scripture reading from Psalms about family and home followed by a prayer. Then there was another song of gratitude. The mother gave a prayer of gratitude for us coming to visit.

The main attraction followed. The twins were brought out for all to see. First, some of the ladies dressed the babies with new clothes which we had brought. Then we sang and danced as all got to hold them. I think I impressed the others by the way I was able to get one of the babies to smile. Finally, we had one last song. I noticed that during the song a person’s name was said and then they got up and did a quick jig. So when I heard my name I did likewise. Of course everyone chuckled at my dance.

I have learned you do not go to a Kenyan's house without eating. We had a full meal. Two kinds of rice, three kinds of chicken, fish with the head attached, beef, seasoned meatballs, three different kinds of vegetables, boiled eggs, boiled eggs wrapped in meat, plus other dishes. While eating I was told that I did not eat enough. Kenyans stuff themselves at gatherings until they can eat no more. Then we had a break but were served a choice of fresh mango or passion fruit juice. We visited for a while until dessert was served. It was fresh fruit and ice cream. The fresh fruit was so sweet I commented about sugar being added. I was told that if you cut pineapple at the right time it is very sweet. Many of the teachers went back for more ice cream. Most do not have refrigeration in their homes so frozen treats are a very special treat to them.

It was a great experience. It is always good to meet with coworkers away from the school setting. It was fun to see them interacting with one another and I was grateful to be included. The experience gave me more insight into their culture. I wish I had my camera so I could have taken some pictures!